Social Enlightenment - "Inferiority" to "empathy"

This completely changes how you feel in public and how people see you.

One of the things that changed my life: by default, I was extremely uncomfortable in public. I never liked eye contact and prefered to have no conversations unless I absolutely have to.

I used to make wrong assumotions about people (many people do). I used to think most people were above me; that’s how an insecure mind works. I used to think that I didn’t look good, people didn’t like me, and they were all superior to me. I felt women would never choose me, and if there was ever an interaction, I was always the awkward one.

Then, somewhere along the way, I started to notice something and that changed everything.

I realized most people are actually more uncomfortable than I am. Most people are far behind me in life, but they hide it. I realized most people have serious fears regarding life, loneliness, confidence, and relationships, yet almost no one shows it.

This applies to both men and women. You see the guy pull over in a Bentley? Same thing. You see the woman looking like a million dollars? Same thing.

Long story short: most of us see the world the wrong way.

I say this in the most humble way....and I never verbalize it anywhere; I’m only telling you because it’s a vital part of self-development, but now, whenever I walk into a venue, I know that most people are not as developed, confident, happy, or aware as I am.

I hold my head up, make eye contact, smile, and have empathy for people. I think of most people as lost children not knowing why they are here.

This creates the exact opposite of feeling uncomfortable and insecure. This is another layer of the "Matrix" meme: like Neo fighting agents.

The tall, good-looking guy, the massive bodybuilder, the hottest girls in the room, a huge part of their minds is focused on what they don’t have and the fear of tomorrow. I’ve also found that the "cooler" someone is, the nicer they tend to be to you.

You have nothing to worry about. You are way further along than you think you are, and very likely much higher value than you realize.

The awkardness is rthe result of feedback loop. You get in your head and act awkward. She senses it and she mirrors that. And there an interaction that could eno up beautifully, just ends forever.

Have empathy for people. They are not as developed as they show. You are far more valuable, good looking, and powerful than you are. Most people don't know it.