Instructions:
Pick one line only.
Say it calmly, no smile seeking.
Don’t stare at her. Keep doing something casual (for example, take a sip of coffee).
Stop talking.
Watch her reaction for 5–10 seconds.
If she opens up or stays close → remain present.
If she stays neutral → keep it light.
If she pulls back → switch to kid logistics.
Lines:
You feel nice today.
You seem more at ease right now.
You have a softer energy today.
You seem lighter than before.
You feel more grounded today.
Rules:
Say only one.
No follow-up.
No explanation.
If she engages → stay present.
If she deflects → switch back to kid logistics.
Compliance signs:
She stays instead of moving away
She leans in or angles her body toward you
She asks a follow-up question
She smiles naturally (not polite)
She shares something personal
She extends the interaction (doesn’t rush)
She mirrors your tone or pace
She touches lightly or doesn’t pull away
She brings up the past positively
She initiates another topic
Once you see clear compliance and she’s relaxed and staying present, pause for a couple of seconds and then make a simple, low-key ask. Say something like, “I was thinking, I want to invite you for a coffee one day next week. Low-key. No pressure.” Then stop talking. If she says yes, calmly follow with, “Cool. Tuesday or Thursday?” and leave the details for later. If she hesitates or seems unsure, say, “No worries, just thought I’d ask,” and smoothly switch back to kid logistics. No explaining, no emotions, one ask only.