The foundation of our attachment style isn't solid by default, and most guys don’t realize this until after a catastrophic separation.

A relationship can shake your foundation hard and turn James Bond to Cinderella.

You might start out secure, but over time, the dynamics can push you toward anxious.

It can pull you deep into that anxious style, flip the power dynamic, and drain your confidence, turning you into someone you barely recognize. 

Losing your identity, your peace, and eventually, yourself.

The goal is to stay aware of how relationships can trigger your darkest patterns, and to build strong, balanced dynamics where you stay in control. That's what the confidence program inside the Hacks is designed for.

The relationship in core is a check-in system to keep you aware, grounded, and constantly developing. It not a fairy tail.