When anxious attachment is finally broken, you'll see the truth.

There is an incredible sense of freedom that comes when you genuinely stop giving a shit about what she does or doesn't do. It feels like walking out of a prison after being locked inside for years, a prison you didn't even realize you had built around yourself.

She can threaten to leave, say she'll never speak to you again, block you, unblock you, or do whatever else she wants. None of it controls your emotions anymore. You remain calm because your feelings are no longer controlled by her behavior.

You finally see the attachment for what it truly was. Only a man who has found real inner confidence, become secure within himself, and broken free from anxious attachment can fully understand that feeling.

It happens when you realize she is just like every other woman, that to everyone else she is simply an average woman, and that she has only become a big deal inside your head, you begin to see the truth. Her life is messed up, and she will not find anyone else like you. An insecure-attached guy won't see this.

Source: Unknown Jedi