You Were/Are Her Best Option

The mistake most guys make is this: they meet an attractive woman, and then, because they are starved for that kind of connection, they build a story in their head about how this woman has countless good options and he somehow won her out of millions of options.

What these guys don’t realize is that attractive women have countless options of men they don’t want. If she’s hot and between 18–40, she has many options of fuckboys. That means she either doesn’t get approached by the guys she actually wants, or she gets approached mostly by fuckboys. She says no to 50 guys and waits 6 months until she says yes to yet another wrong guy. her brain doesn't register that she is inapable of seeing the good guys.

But these guys think that just because she has many followers and many guys approach her, she has many options.

If she stayed with you, or had sex with you and came back, that means you were her best option, period.

If you are one of these guys, get out of your head. There are not many guys who give what you give.

Many guys, because they are insecure and never had experience, don’t see what they offer. I have a client who pays his girlfriend $7K a month, and he thinks she has many other options. She doesn’t. She makes it look like she does. Because it's a game. She needs to do it so we works hard for her. There are either fuckboys out there, or guys who are invisible to these women.

If you were in a relationship, it means she is a relationship-type woman.

Stop making assumptions that there are countless men ready to jump into a relationship and give her the life she wants.

Her looks and her “options” are often the very thing that becomes her problem. Those are the things that cause her all these issues.

Many guys live with very wrong settings in their head that cause them pain, insecurity, and problems.

There is a shortage of men who commit and have something to offer. Most guys who have something to offer are either taken or playing the fuckboy game.

See your value.