Life After Separation
Life After Separation
Parallel Lives Concept
Think of two parallel lines.
Each represents a lifestyle from this point forward:
Line 1, everything between you and your ex (communication, reconnection, decisions).
Line 2, your life without her (daily routine, personal growth, other women, finances).
You must live both lines fully, engaged, calibrated and with a plan.
Don’t let one stop the other until you’re completely stable. Most men pause Line 2, and that’s why they stay stuck. Life with your ex will likely move slower, so it’s crucial you move everything else forward now.
You have the full Path Finder program for this. It’s built to help you decide what to do from here. That means:
Health: Build the body you never thought possible. Cut alcohol, vaping, and all poisons.
Social/Dating: Upgrade your circle. New friends and quality female connections.
Finances: Clear debts, set up a solid investment plan.
You’ll feel resistance in each area, expect it, go through it
For your ex:
Follow the **Text Proxy Rule** and the plan I make you. Discuss messages with me inside the coaching program, I’ll guide you on communication.
Inside the courses, master **Code Red, Breakup & Aftermath, Relationship Dynamics** and the full catalogue.
Move both lines forward. Let this breakup transform you into a version of yourself you didn’t know existed.
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Ben